Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Grandma and Grandpa Gonzalez are coming!!!

Grandma and Grandpa Gonzalez are coming this afternoon!







We are so exicted to see them and introduce them to their little grandson! I will be posting pictures as soon as I can. I am sure they will be perfect and darling! James is napping to save up his energy. :)

Health and Baby Report
Happy to report that things are going pretty well with James and Mommy is on the mend! Hurray! Things are finally getting to start to get into a routine.

Last night James slept from 11:30 to 4:30! WOW! 5 hours! Of coarse, I was up and down checking on him to make sure he was okay, and all was well.

Now, I know some of you will be concerned that we are supposed to feed him every 4 hours no matter what, but he has been eating and eating and eating very well! He is up to eating 4 oz. at each sitting and sometimes with a small 1-2 oz snack inbetween meals. So I took a chance to let him sleep a little more. It was a small piece of heaven.

Speaking of heaven, we have officially moved back upstairs last night and I was a little apprehensive at first on how the flow of the new space would work, since we have spent the last 2 weeks on teh main floor. I was pleasently surprised that it was perfect! The little nook and his room are perfect to get everything done. (changin, feeding, dressing, etc.) That Larry, I tell ya, what a great designer and Pappa!!

Helping Hands come to the rescue - AGAIN!
My Mom and Uncle Kevin came over on Saturday to clean up our yard. What a blessing... it really needed it and Larry and I appreciated all the hard work Mom and Kevin put into making it look nice for when the Gonzalez' arrive in Minnesota!
Also, more thanks to my Mom for helping me clean up the house and get the guest room ready for our visitors. It is going to take me three life times to repay all this hard work!! Love you guys!

Me & You and a Dog Named Blue
Our dog Blue has finally warmed up to James and is protecting him as a little part of our family. Here is a picture of Pappa, Blue and JJ cuddling on the couch and Blue hangin' by James cradle in the living room.
Oh and yes, here is a picture of this weeks installment of Cats and Dogs living in harmony:









We have had several visitors in the past week! Thanks for coming!!
Here are some photos! I will add more as I get them! Promise!

Dione Kelm's Mom made a great toddler towel for JJ. Larry is sporting the fashion for us!





Great-Uncle Fritz:










Lisa:









Melanie:
We have a video of Melanie teaching me how to keep JJ awake.



Sara:









Again, thank you all so much for all the well wishes, visits, food, and company! We are SO blessed to have such great friends and family. We love you all very much and cannot wait to return all the favors you have done for us!

Much love:

Joy, Larry, JJ, Blue and Chandler

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Here comes the Sun! (do, do doo doo)

Okay, many of you are probably wondering what is going on with the health care situation?!!
This is a REALLY long story... but the short of it is that I will be just fine in a few weeks! :)




Well, last Mon 8/11, we all went to the Doctor to find out what was going on with my health. I was spiking a fever all weekend from 102-103.4. Once in the Dr. Office, Dr. Gurney took one look at my stomach and exclaimed, "OH no! You have a skin infection!!" They decided to administer two huge antibiotic shots in my bum and sent me home with explicit instructions to go to the ER should I spike another fever.

Happily out of the Doc's office and out of the house, I was excited to be anywhere at this point... We ran over to Baby's R US to pick up some little things. While we were there, unfortunately I did feel my fever spike. :( But rather than rush too fast, we picked up some food, went home, I packed a bag, and was ready to take a shower when my incision decided to burst open all over our upstairs carpet. I calmly put the dressing back on the wound and called for Larry to come upstairs to help me. We were both in shock!! I asked Larry to call 911 for an ambulance, because I did not think we were going to make it in the car... plus it was about 10 PM and we were both so sleep deprived.

Larry also called my Mom to come down to the ER to pick up JJ so he would not contract any germs from the people down there... luckily they did not have to spend any time in the waiting room.

As I was brought into the hospital by the Maplewood EMTs, the ER crew were all surprised on how "impressive" my wound infection was. (Hmmm... I never do anything 1/2 assed...) I was pretty scared. I honestly thought I might die. I was pretty freaked out and sad, but luckily Mom and Larry were there to assure me I was going to be fine. I just could not take much more... honestly....

Next thing I know, I am being admitted to the hospital again. This time on the surgical floor. Who is going to take care of JJ? Who is going to help Larry? Well, Mom to the rescue again. Thanks Mom!

I was in the hospital from Monday 8/11 - Friday 8/15. During that time, my incision was cleaned up by Dr. Kim Fischer, the bacteria strain was determined to not be an MRSA, rather it was Citrobacter (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Citrobacter) which could be treated by more antibiotics. I was also outfitted with the Wound pump to assist with my healing.

After being discharged on Friday the 15th, I was so happy to be home!! But come Sunday, we found that I had broken out all over in hives from the oral antibiotics they had given me and there was another leakage along the incision that we needed to have looked at as soon as possible. The home care nurse that was over on Sunday to change out my wound pump suggested that we wet/dry pack the wounds for the night and get to the Doc in the morning. Okaaay... but I better not end up in the hospital again. I was really down again and felt that each week was bringing another set back... but I was hangin' in there. James was still happy and healthy! And Larry was not ready to sell me to the circus quite yet, so I had that goin' for me. ;)
As of Monday 8/18, we may have nipped Mommy's health problems in the bud, FINALLY!
I am on a wound VAC from the hospital that should enable my infected incision to heal up to 44% faster than if we were to simply wet/dry pack it.
This whole open wound care thing is very odd, yet interesting to me. I guess they leave this gaping hole open on your body to let the wound heal from the inside out. I have never had any health issues remotely related to this, so this is a foreign concept to me. It seems so unsterile, and yes, it is... but apparently it works out. I have a home health care nurse that comes out every 2-3 days to change the dressing in our guest room. Thank God for awesome health care insurance!! (Shout out to Blue Cross/Blue Shield - for now... we'll see when we get the bills)
If you would like to read up on Wound VAC care, here is a link:
It is pretty cool. Yesterday, I saw the doctor that originally cleaned out the infection and she was pleasantly surprised on how well the wound has healed so far. The only small draw back is that we found another leaking wound along the incision line that needs to be cared for as well. Luckily, the wound vac can take care of both wounds at the same time. The good news, is that I have been fever free for over a week and hopefully we are on an uphill swing and I can stop being home bound after about 2 weeks. :) I AM SO BORED!!! Luckily, James is trying to keep me busy! Visiting hours are back on, just call before you come, so we are ready! :)
James is PERFECT!! His umbilical cord fell off on Sunday. We can't tell if he will have an innie or an outie yet... there is still some minor healing for him to have there. I swear when he toots (farts) he smiles just like his Dad does... Doesn't have the acumen to say,"Oops!" quite yet, but I am sure that is coming.
It is truly amazing how fast time is going! James is already 18 days old! WOW! He actually rolled over in his craddle today! I am excited to get him into his new room areas very soon, but for now, we are all staying on the main floor in thhe guest bedroom and living room until we can get the days and nights on track and Mommy's health is clear for take off.
Thank you all for your continued support and prayers!
Joy, Larry, JJ, Blue, and Chandler

Enjoy the Fun shots for this week! Larry got me a great camera of my very own!! :)
If you are interested in seeing James, we have established "visiting hours". If you could email us to let us know you are coming, that would help us gauge our time.
Tuesday 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Thursday 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sunday 12:00 PM - 4:00 PM
This way you folks don't feel like you are intruding and we can be prepared for you as well. :)

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Health update - quick one

Hi folks,
I have been hospitalized this week diagnosed with Cellulitis.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/cellulitis/DS00450
http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/cellulitis-topic-overview
James and Larry are just fine. This is not contagious. We are optimistic that this should be resolved very soon. I have been pumped with tons of antibiotics over the last three days.

We are still waiting to hear what bacteria strain this is. We will hear more tomorrow.
I know many of you are concerned and we appreciate it! Just having a tough time being really verbose on the Blog right now. Stay tuned and as I get better I will post all the stories! They are riveting and funny! Fun for the whole family, I promise.

Love to all,
Joy, Larry, JJ, Blue & Chan

Monday, August 11, 2008

Visiting Hours

No visiting hours this Sunday 8/17.
I will be at my Mom's house for Ann's wedding shower.
I will bring James with me so he can meet all the Kennedy ladies.

If you are interested in popping by during the visiting hours, please just give us heads up call so we know someone is coming. :)

Tuesday 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Thursday 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sunday 12:00 PM - 4:00 PM (Not available 8/17)


Keep watching the Blog updates for any changes to the schedule.

THANKS EVERYONE!!
Joy, Larry, JJ, Blue & Chandler.

Friday, August 8, 2008

Happy 1 Week Birthday James!!

Well, it has been a whole week since our little miracle was brought into our lives. We thank God everyday for him! He is so beautiful and smart.

We also thank God for all of you. Your support, care, love and concern has been overwhelming. Thank you.

This week has been a whirlwind. We still need to document here for you folks the sequence of events that led up to us finally having James via cesarean. I am still recuperating and not able to "do" too much - I am unable to drive for 2 weeks and unable to lift anything heavier than James for 6 weeks. I am in some pain, but each time I look at our little miracle, it is all worth it. Seriously, he is too darn cute!!!

Looking back on it now, we can at least smile and laugh a little. But for the most part, it was, what I consider, to be one of the most difficult experiances we have ever had in our lives. (WELL WORTH IT!)

So, on this special day for James, we would like to share some of friends and family announcements of James' arrival. If you have anything you would like to share, please make sure you add to the comments of our Blog. :)

From Grandpa Wadnizak:













From a friend of Grandpa Wadnizak, Renee Francey
A very touching video on You Tube -
BABY JJ

(Serously, get a tissue. This is BEAUTIFUL! Thank you Renee.)

If you are interested in seeing James, we will be establishing "visiting hours" starting next week. If you could email us to let us know you are coming, that would help us gauge our time.

Tuesday 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Thursday 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Sunday 12:00 PM - 4:00 PM
This way you folks don't feel like you are intruding and we can be prepared for you as well. :)

Chat with you all soon,
Joy, Larry, JJ, Blue & Chandler

Saturday, August 2, 2008

Ladies and Gentlemen.... Let's get ready to RUMMMMBBLLLEEEEE!

Introducing the champion
Fighting his way out in St. Paul, MN
James Joseph "The Guns" Gonzalez

Welcome to the MAIN EVENT:
Friday 08/1/08 at 10:56 PM CT
Weighing in at 7 lbs 14.75 oz; 21 inches tall with a reach of 22 inches.

People look at those guns! What a knock out!!

Stay tuned for blow by blow details of the Championship fight.